19 Dec Needless to say a lot of men do perhaps not exist within sexual binaries, regardless of what they tell on their own.
Unless you’re really ignorant, this would be obvious.
But that what’s that are’s. The inability that is complete comprehend grey area sex (i guess, for a technical degree, bisexuality) by these males. I could forget exactly just how oppressive our culture is, and exactly how restrictive our prescribed ideas of male sex are until We read shit like this.
None among these guys is directly. Both you and these are generally deluding by themselves in the event that you actually genuinely believe that. But most of these guys are petrified of possibly losing the privileges that are included with determining as a result, to the stage that they’re curbing a side of themselves and doubting their particular expression that is sexual.
And they’re planning to keep curbing it, keeping it “discreet”, and vehemently connecting on their own to identity that is heterosexual almost certainly making at least some section of on their own miserable along the way.
You realize, we always was previously a “labels” man. But this? Screw this. Fuck labels with regards to this. Labels are helpful once you know you’re not right, and have to use it as something to help keep your sanity.